Monologue “…so, doctor, I survived. Yes… we had a good marriage, we lived a good life together. A whole life together. I respected him, and he respected me. Of course, I was devastated when he passed… pain, so much pain. But I didn’t collapse. Loneliness doesn’t scare me. I’ve learned to be alone. The ability to be alone is a prerequisite for true love. It’s the necessary freedom you must have to be able to love truly. It may seem paradoxical, but it’s not. It’s a truth… only those who are capable of being alone are capable of loving.” I nodded my head slightly, …to encourage her without interrupting. A silence fell. …she thought for a moment… …and continued: “Only those who can feel secure and confident enough to enter the deepest core of another person without wanting to control them… only they can avoid depending on the other, reducing them to a tool or a refuge. Only they are not at risk of becoming addicted to the other’s presence. They allow the other their freedom, because they ...